new baby, networking, styling porn, among other things

Hey friends..... I know, I know, I haven't written for some time. You know the story..... constantly getting wrapped up in kids, networking, birthing babies, house repairs, renting apartment, blah, blah, blah!

Let's see......Tifenn had her baby on Saturday April the 11th @ 9:45. His name is Arwen Kai Python Grafe. Tifenn was amazing, early on in the day, she withdrew and turned her focus within, closed her eyes and never really opened them until the baby was born. Albert greatly enjoyed playing Mario Andretti running red lights & stop signs on the way to the hospital. Everything worked perfectly. The baby was never in any distress. Tifenn opened up relatively quickly. Max held & coached her brilliantly the whole time and kept Hank Williams on the radio. I held and massaged her legs. The pushing was pretty long 2 1/4 hours...but he came out absolutely perfect...rosy cheeks, smooth skin, never really looked like a newborn. The kids & Albert were waiting in the family room and got to see him before the cord was even cut.

On Easter, which was the next day, I was suppose to have everyone over, but we changed it at the last minute to Tia Maria's because of the birth. I did my baking as soon as I heard that Tifenn's water broke, so I at least had that done.

We were invited again this year to celebrate passover with our next door neighbors Yvonne (my younger twin sister) & Eddie. They invited about 30 people. We set up various stations in the yards and the kids spent time at each making Harosa, Matzoh, Maror, etc. I was in charge of the Macaroon making which, needless to say, was fun, but a sticky gooey mess which I discover in various areas of our apartment for days. It was very festive with lots of music & song. Yvonne had a friend visiting from Switzerland who is a great accordion player and during a traditional "dayenu song" she improvised brilliantly, so brilliantly that we later put her on utube.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjRnPBYkkD8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZ3fJvLGTq8&feature=related
(Notice my trash cans before they were stolen!)

Yes, our trash cans were stolen a few nights ago. Unbelievable....how low can you go! When I went to purchase new ones the hardware guy told me that it was a very common problem. Contractors supposedly steal them. So, the new ones we have tried to make as ugly as possible, writing & drilling our address into them. Wish us luck!

My husband's going to be in better shape than I am! Albert rode in the 5 Borough bike race this weekend. He completed 50 miles in the rain without any problems or injury... just a somewhat sore foot. He is training for the NYC Century with team TA and has to raised $1000 dollars in sponsorship which will go to "Transportation Alternatives". http://www.nyccentury.org/teamta/2009participants

I am still running my one loop about 3 or 4 times a week....same old, same old. I did sign up for an African Dance workshop starting June 1 that I am really excited about!

Work has gotten a little better. Albert pimped me out a few weeks ago. One of his clients had a stylist cancel at the last and Albert plugged me. The shoot was for a coffee table book about the "real" girls of Penthouse. It started out as just consulting, but Albert pushed me to do the whole shoot because (if the book goes through) it will lead to 40 more shoots. Having a girl...I was full of mixed emotions doing the shoot and I was a little irritated at Albert's persistance, but I have to help put food on the table, right! The girl we shot was in her early twenties was very nice, a bit shy, wanted the changing room door shut and locked, didn't reveal even an inkling of the professional nature for which she so famous until she was behind the camera and then one understood fully. Here is a shot that I took during the shoot. We shot in an East New York landmark building (owned by her heavy metal boyfriend) which was being used for steel work.



You guys should be very proud of me, I have forced myself to go to a few industry networking parties lately. A stylist friend of mine & I have teamed up for the past two weeks to attend the dreaded events and they actually weren't that bad. We just enjoyed each others company, drank (my usual half-pint of course), and egged each other on to meet who we needed to meet. It would have be just awful if I had to do it alone.

Kristen, Sally & I went out a few weeks ago. It was fun to be out, but not much to tell...a very unusually calm, non-eventful night!

Roe, congratulations on finishing your first term of Master teaching...what a transition huh?! Lily I am so happy for you and your new beau! Can't wait for you two to visit!